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Re: Dealing With Bullies

Re: Dealing With Bullies2011-07-07T14:18:33+00:00

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Great post !

I think bullying is all about control. I am only guessing but if we look at those that do bully you will find issues with in them that there were control issues maybe through traumas in there own lives that substantiate there behavior. That said it might be best to avoid those that do bully and find anything that promotes positiveness and understanding. Some as you retreat to art, music, writing, nature, sports etc. I believe being able to understand the persons reason they may be bullying you may help you to cope with the bullying behavior. I suggest not bullying back (although i wonder if our society is sending mixed signals re that). I am still one of conviction not to retaliate through physical or mental violent means but reaching out through understanding and a kind heart is better for you as an individual.

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