By golly, gosh darn george IVE GOT IT!! Every day, for ONE week, I pledge to just get ONE and ONLY ONE (whatever fits in a laundry basket) load of laundry, folded and put away! And ONE load of dishes done! That is my first step! Starting today and right now!
*Edit* I must say I am very proud of myself! I ACTUALLY folded a load of laundry! I cant even remember the last time Ive done that! I even folded the T-shirts. I just did it, didnt think about how they are not perfect and I put them away 
Dishes are done too!