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Re: Successful ADDers annoy the h*ll out of me.

Re: Successful ADDers annoy the h*ll out of me.2011-11-15T20:07:11+00:00

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While I agree – the ability to delegate or rather the LACK of that ability is an ADD trait – at least that’s what the neuro-psyc told me when I explained how deep I get in…

While it’s a good idea, and perhaps some of us could or should do more of it – it’s one of the struggles. I’ve not yet mastered how to do that, although I find with age, I might be just a bit better…………

LOL – I also have this issue – if you want something done right, you have to do it yourself.

Unfortunately, I’ve yet to see that disproven. Im never satisfied, no one ever does things they way I want them done, I suallly have to do them over anyway, or find a do I much better job (a lot slower, but better)

Doesn’t matter – electric, plumbing, repair around the house, anything, I’m not happy with the work others do and normally end up doing it better.

One exception is our HVAC person – I swear he as ADD. His crew installed our Trane heat pump system 3 years ago. They were wrapping up and he came to check in at the end of the day. He was not a happy camper. WOW, he even redid things I’d have let go just to not be arguing about it. He was insistent that everything that could be reached be totally sealed. There was a bit of air noise in the ducts – he insisted that be solved. He out picky’d me!

I need to find SG’s thread and post what I found out – the “results” as it were……… fascinating.

WOW – great posts here. Even some of the stuff I don’t 100% agree with for myself, I find I respect, and am seeing different angles. They must be good posts to catch me like that! ;-) (or the rest of the Adderall is kicking in ROFLMAO)

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