“Your soul is incapable of love” is just a mean thing to say. It says a lot about the person who said it, but nothing about you (except that this is a relationship you may really want to look at and see if it helpful to you.)
The ADHD stuff is hard to live with for a non-ADDer. That said, there are a lot of non-ADDer traits that I find hard to live with!!
When people tell me to try harder, I usually just smile, and in my head change the comment to “try smarter” or “try differently”. We are already trying as hard as we can!
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