[mlawrence]

How about getting into a relation, marry and then find out that you are not the person you think you are, based on which you got married and that person you got married to, is not the ‘one’ you would have loved to share your life with? Irreversible damage to the rest of the life! From this perspective I think it is much better to get into a relation late and know yourself better. I know I may not be making you feel better, but just trying to stop people from committing the same mistake. That’s all.

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I am pursuing my cousin brother to go for a check up and to see whether he has ADHD. The problem, however, arises from the fact that he has mixed symptoms. It’s like regarding focusing on a particular topic/issue, if he decides to do it, he can. But, he himself has told me that getting distracted by the commonest thing while he is trying to focus has become a regular issue with him. The noise thing is another part. He has shouted on his friends, me and other family members several time to ask them to be quiet. But then he listens to music in high volume when he is alone and wants to work on something as it seems the high volume helps him! Recently during playing some online games with my little one I saw him shifting through one game to the other without completing any one of them and the kid got so mad at him! Don’t know if any of these or all of these can be considered as symptoms but I think a check up should do him some good.

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[mlawrence]

I would prefer you take the child to practice Tai Chi. This is because Tai Chi would help him in focusing on a single movement better, would improve coordination and also helps in self-control in a big way. If you see improvement in his behavior then may be later you can consider Taekwondo or Judo.

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