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First User Aka Miguel( I assume) : If you are referring to NYC , please feel free to reach out if you need someone to talk to …I grew up my entire life constantly questioning everything thus limiting my social performance in real-time … I made the mistake of accepting my parent’s (and worse, rising verbal reinforcement from “others” ) mentioning of my “shyness”…

In the reality of things I was using my beautifully working mind to formulate brilliant ideas (it may help to think about your mind like this as well) . The only problem with this reality is that the history of ideas involving our “apparent” disorder , makes us vulnerable to the captivating effect of new information and pre-conceived notions(insert text-book psych definition lol) that come from our peers…USE USE USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE!

HOW you will ask? ( as I have done on thousands of social situations)- Everyone OF US is different …I try to LITERALLY enjoy the people who take an avid interest in my presence… The fact remains that the human mind in general, does not accommodate every single detail in its immediate setting, respectfully more-so longterm..Now I know this may sound different and knowing our gift , it most likely will though if you can possibly use it to your benefit , I’d be happy that I know of someone I helped… In the end if it doesn’t help I lay one last suggestion. Are they really important ? Is  social-activity really important? Who on earth can give proven scientific analysis on >99 % hypothesis that understanding people in these situations can provide the best absolute BENEFIT TO YOU? If there isn’t one finding of this data, I say keep doing you… because in the end…If you truly enjoy being alone and producing vivid awareness within yourself, that is what makes you happy…I thank you for your mindset as it has thus re-validated my decision to not go out with my friends who “need MY, ME, MYSELF now” to pick up women.

#FUNLITTLEDEFICITGAME >> (Quantity of our unique thoughts per second, lapse, what ever ) x .0000001 = The mindset of someone “different” .

 

 

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