[Just Me]

im sorry i thought this was still am active web site ..ooops its not its ok ill just keep going on> mods please delete this post

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I thank you all for the advice and I know I have to hang in ..today I even got out of bed…I have got evidence of things he says and does (I even have a cAs report as evidence) but until I,m able to tell and prove my side they remain with him and in the end most likely because they have been with him the courts won’t remove them, because it’s not about the things that have transpired but about the kids remaining staus quo. It’s the hardest part for me to comprehend that in the end I may have to spend the next 12 years being the “other parent” which means me having to put up with my ex still controlling me which is the only way he can (through the kids and what he tells them about me)
I don’t have family (the kids were my life and family) I,m not mentally insane I’m not crazy and I,m not perfect but I do have add which has made my life harder and having it used against me now is the hardest part of it all.

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LOL I have done the SAME things I have spent HOURS doing research on family and Ebay well there’s a BIG time waster to! Glad to know I’m not alone:-)

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@Mica thanks I guess your right. At least here I can feel like I’m not alone here:-)

@Larynxa I understand what you are saying about the “toys” As I see my 14yr old son in that boat as he has limited friends and problems interacting one on one with others and so spends alot of time with his “toys” My self “I hate the phone” It drives me nuts to just sit there and yap and that may be my problem, as I hate phoning others just to yap about life. I am an outdoor person and feel better when I can see others when talking to them I also feel better when I’m outdoors as I don’t feel so couped up and this to seems to be a problem, as most pepole these days spend alot of time texting to meet up…. or sending emails to each other about local stuff.

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Thanks for your ideas ….I have always been on the low side for having friends, but in the past I have always had at least one.! I thought I fit in with the other moms as I went and talked and laughed with them daily (at the drop-in/parent centers) I joined the local park / city council for my neighbourhood, I have helped out at school functions etc, etc. But it always stays at that it seems I’m good enough when others need something but thats it. No one ever calls to come over for coffee or invite my kids over for playdates SOoo I try. Believe me I have made alot of effort with every sort of people..

I have offered my phone number to other parents, made playdates but then they cancel. In the summer we have a big pool in our yard My 12 and 14 yr old and my self are always asking neighbourhood kids to come by for swim they say sure but never do come. I ask others to stop by for a bbq they say sure but never do …

We don’t have alot of money for us to go out to join local clubs and activities so I just go to the local parks and walks around the neighbourhood but that isn’t doing much good…I don’t have any family, alll my highschool friends are either moved away or live more the an hours drive away and there isn’t many weird people in my neighbourhood (just alot of young couples/new parents) …

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I to find myself awake late at night but for me I think it’s because by nighttime my meds have woren off. So without the stimulate to keep all the stuff in my brain in one place, I find it wandering around for hours, going over every little thing that happened in the day.

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