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It’s easy to say, but I wouldn’t be that concerned with looks. I’m good-looking (used to do kissagrams) and people thought I had a great life, but inside I was desperately lonely.

Yes, girls looked at me, but I was usually much too petrified to even go up to them. Or, I even focussed for minutes/hours on what to say as an opening line.  This made me feel even worse.

Anyway, my advice is

1. that those that do well in the meeting game are people that can talk & relax,

2. the easiest way to find (soul) mates is from people you see regularly, as they/you are more likely to talk to you/them and have something in common.

Good luck!

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Re easily angered/overly frustrated when talking to people/working on something … & over-analyse:

OMG yes. You are not the only one. I feel, what I can only describe as, a sort of mist descend in my head and the other person’s words echo, and I feel my teeth clenching and sometimes my chest and stomach muscles tightening.  If I could notice it at the time and control it, that would be a truly wonderful thing, as it alienates people and makes me feel guilty and awful (plus I generally lose the argument and so lose S/T confidence as a result)

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