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  • May 21, 2014 at 11:58 pm in reply to: Feeling Stupid #125218

    catlover79
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    May 21, 2014 at 11:58 pm
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    Blackdog: I totally support you if you decide to get a four legged friend as they are far less complicated than the two legged variety, I have also read your post on this thread as well as your own thread and all I can say is that you are better off without the person you’ve discussed in that thread and I know I wouldn’t have tolerated even a quarter of that shit!

     

    Ditl:  Your post has helped me a fair bit so thanks for that!! You are also correct in all you’ve said, for now I’m no longer focusing on this person or the situation as I have study and work to worry about now lol

     

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    May 14, 2014 at 3:51 pm in reply to: "What's your biggest problem or frustration with ADD/ADHD in general? #125161

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    May 14, 2014 at 3:51 pm
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    The second biggest frustration of having ADHD is that people can get really nasty when you make a mistake (that can be attributed to ADHD)…

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    May 7, 2014 at 4:35 pm in reply to: Dating sites for people with disorders? #125107

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    You could go to a dating site specifically for ADD/ADHD! I know there are a few dating sites for people with ASD and I’m sure there would have to be one for ADHD as well?!

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    May 7, 2014 at 3:40 am in reply to: Feeling Stupid #125098

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    Thanks!

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    May 5, 2014 at 11:50 pm in reply to: "What's your biggest problem or frustration with ADD/ADHD in general? #125087

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    My high levels of social retardation for want of a better description but then again Aspergers plays a part in that for me too…

     

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    May 5, 2014 at 11:47 pm in reply to: Feeling Stupid #125085

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    May 5, 2014 at 11:47 pm
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    Upon much thinking I have decided to leave the door of communication open to this person if they ever want to get back in touch but for now I am going to focus on other more important things such as my work, my partner, my cat and my family.

    With all the above I would still appreciate some insight from others as to what they think might have happened and if they’ve experienced something similar.

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    May 5, 2014 at 11:34 pm in reply to: Any others with ADD find it impossible to hold a "grudge"? #125084

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    May 5, 2014 at 11:34 pm
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    Once I let a grudge go I refrain from reminding the person about their past mistakes or wrong doings, I move on with or witbout them depending on the situation.

     

    Sel 🙂

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    May 4, 2014 at 1:32 am in reply to: Any others with ADD find it impossible to hold a "grudge"? #125065

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    May 4, 2014 at 1:32 am
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    For me it depends on what has happened.

    Say for example someone has accused me of something I haven’t said or done or has otherwise wronged me for no reason then yes I tend to hold grudges and they can last a while, I have been known to end friendships over stuff like this and cut off all communication with that person for a long time if not forever..

    If I know I’ve played a part in a fight or the ending of a friendship etc I tend to be more lenient and I am less likely to hold a grudge especially if I know I was in the wrong in some way and I’m always on the look out for ways to rectify any wrongs I have committed..

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    May 4, 2014 at 1:11 am in reply to: Feeling Stupid #125063

    catlover79
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    May 4, 2014 at 1:11 am
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    I have a cat and he is my best friend…I have two other good friends as well, one is a Chihuahua and the other is a Poodle mix…

    Animals are far less complicated than people…by a long shot!

    Sel

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