My wife says that I’m often, this isn’t it, my mind is elsewhere, so I’m working and I want to see the kids and then the kids are over and I’m, I should be working. I’m never there where I should be. I’m always, what I should, or I’m never where I am, I’m where I think I should be, and that takes me out that internal distraction going on.
ADHD Myth number two
If You Just Try Harder You’ll Do Better
Jessica McCabe – How To ADHD
Or be normal. um. I think a lot of times when people tell us to try harder
when we have ADHD they don’t realize how hard we’re already trying and we don’t necessarily especially as kids realize how hard we’re supposed to be trying. So we believe people, and then we try harder. I’m pretty sure that’s how my workaholism started, you know. I growing up I felt like I always had to be doing more. I never had time for friends or food like you know stopping and eating a meal is just so strange to me, like I sit and eat a meal at my desk and I just work straight through because all my life I was told to try harder and you know what I’m still not normal.