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well i got my test results the doc said i dont have add or i am not adhd , so like every where else i dont belong. thank you. good bye.
REPORT ABUSEthanks, all so great . short so even i can read along.love them keep them coming.
REPORT ABUSEI have had all those thoughts, yes very dark ones i ofen think the world does not need me and my family would be beter off with out me . i think the only reasons i have not done or tryed to kill myaelf is i dont like how people speak of people that kill themselves and knowing me the way I do I would probobly do that wrong to. so then fear also comes into it for some reson. I like how open and honest i can be about my feelings or worried about what you all think of me. and yes i have low selfesem isusse. it seems my two sons also have this problem. i guess its in the dna. the sad thing is i can not help myself how do i help them. and then it is all to overwellming. thanks for letting me rant. sorry for the downer.
REPORT ABUSEthank you, Iwill be getting my test results on friday from the four hour testing i had afew weeks back.
REPORT ABUSEwellcome ,I am just in the middle of finding out myself @ almost forty eight . I have spent almost all my life trying to find what i was really good at so far nothing. it is already a bit better just knowing that I am not just a loser and lazy. I have also find it a big help knowing that all over out there are other people a lot like me . I also have found that it helps being able to give it a name. I have also found that meds help me alot . so againI I say WELLCOME.
REPORT ABUSEDont under sell the meds. I was at 330 lbs when I started to learn about adhd and to day I am down to 280 please dont ask what that is in kgs. any way iam on concerta and with out it i would have all ready quit my job. ihave also started taking fish oil . and sone meds for other things. my point is that i try do my part and then i let the docs do there part and so on . The thing is if you dont whant to follow what the docs tell you to do why go see them . if you dont trust them then why go see them at all.
REPORT ABUSEboy i tell all of you with all your post . its like you have all known me all my life .some of the people that i used to work with would ask me how i come up with some of the things i say ,simply brilliant. the problem was that by the time they were asking i had moved on and ofcourse forgoten what i had just said. this one young guy that i worked with most of the time always told me as he put it “he sould be righting this shit down” then go on to say he should right a book. i guess its like open pit mineing with my mouth lots of words coming out but you have to dig the the good stuff. clamdigger peple inclueding my wife and kids allways look at you like some thing is wrong . yet it has taken me along time to learn to read that in my family i do feel sorry for the ones that dont know me so well.
REPORT ABUSEhi larynxa,not that lucky . I started looking for a new job.the meds are working i can say that because i still have a job. if i can help it i will not just leave, and thats what i would have done without the meds. having said that people useto push me around when i was young. so if he wantsto keep his driver i hope he can learn resect is a two way street. i dont like fighting with people but i can if i have to so its hurry and wait and see what hapens thanks for your concern.
REPORT ABUSEhi ian dont worry when you get on the meds and find the right meds nd proper dose you will see change. i am still working on these and learning it is a slower process then i had hoped for , but i have sean some posative change and still hoping for more. iam hoping for bigger change.this is a process we all go through. hope this helps.
REPORT ABUSEHI TO REST SORRY FOR GETTING OFFTRACK I AM A VERY SENSITIVE PERSON MY BOSS TOLD ME THURSDAY IN FRONT OF EVERYONE WHEN STARTED TO YELL ATME ISAIDI IWAS THINKING I WAS DRIVING RIGHT BY THAT ADDRESS SO I WOULD STOP AND DROP THE BOX OFF, HERE WHENT ON TO SAY HE WAS NOT PAYING ME TO THINK JUST TO DRIVE THE TRUCK, I KNOW THAT THE MEDS ARE WORKING BECAUCE WITHOUT THE MEDS I WOULD HAVE ASKED HIM IF HE WAS TOTALLY STUPIED OR IF THAT TOOK EFFORT AND THEN BEEN OUT OF A JOB INSTEAD I SAID THERE WAS NO NEED TO YELL AT ME. HIS REPLY WAS WE ARE ALL MEN HERE THERE IS NO NEED TO BE SO SENSITIVE WE ARE ALL MEN HERE. IHAVE STARTED TO LOOK FOR A NEW JOB , I KNOW THE MEDS ARE WORKING BECAUCE I STILL HAVE A JOB AND THEN OFER TO LET HIM HIT ME AND THEN GO ON OND SAY WHEN I GET UP THEN TODAYYOU ARE GOING TO MEET JESUS BECAUCE I WILL SEND YOU TO MEET HIM. I STILL WOULD LIKE TOO BUT I SILL HAVE AJOB SO FOR KNOW IWILL KEEP LOOKING AND BITTING MY TOUGE. THANKS FOR THE THEARPY,
REPORT ABUSEHI THIS IS FOR NICK ,TRASHMAN HERE IAM 47YEARS OLD I STUGGLE WITH ONLY FINDING OUT WHY I WAS OVER SENSETIVE I ALSO AM LEARNING I HAVE ALWAYS HAD SOME LEARNING DESIBBILITYS AND YES WRITING AND SPELLING IS SOME OF THEM IHAVE AHARD TIME KEEPING A JOB BECAUSE I GET HURT FEELINGS VERY EASLY AND THEN I SAY AND DO THINGS I LATTER WISH I HAD NOT. I ALSO GET FRUSTERATED KNOWING I HAVE WASTED MY LIFE I TELL MY WIFE THAT I HAVE THOUGHT SOMETIMES I SHOULD KILL MY SELF BUT I WOULD PROBABLY DO THAT WRONG TOO. MY POINT IS YOU ARE STILL YOUNG AND A BRIGHT FUTURE AND HAVE A CHANCE TO AJUST YOUR LIFE AND BECUASE OF BEING IN SCHOOL IN THE VERY NEAR FUTURE YOU WILL BEABLE TO TRY TO STOP PEOPLE LIKE YOU AND ME FROM GOING UNDIOGNOSTED FOR SO LONG. I WOULD ASK FOR YOU ,ME AND MY 20 YEAR OLD SON WHO FAILLED UNIVERSATY AND THEY ASK HIM TO NOT RETURN AND STILL SAYS HE HAS NO ADD. PLEASE YOUR ANGER AND EMOTHIONS ARE REAL,BUT FOR THOSE OF US OUT HERE WATING AND PRAYING THAT THE DOCTOR WILL UNDERSTAND, JUST MAYBE THE TIMING IS JUST ABOUT RIGHT. SO HAVING SAID THAT I HOPE THIS HELPS AND FOR MANY LIVES THAT YOU WILL HELP IN FUTURE I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THANK-YOU. PLEASE DO NOT LET YOUR EMOTIONS CONTROL YOUR FUTURE.
REPORT ABUSEI had to give some input sorry to here about your son. I went to school in the 70’s @ 14 leaving school and having add and not knowing thinking back explanes alot. I think having add and thinking of death as a way to solve all the things one has no control over i am wondering if it is a very strong charateristic of add. i often have felt that way. to be truthfull i still do on a daily bassis. i do think people are creawl but people would talk down about me after i was dead so one strange reason to keep living and with my track record i would get that wrong. i think it is great and we can be so honest hear. if i told you my story it might make your head spin my phyc. doc said i cant change all the things that hapen so i should get over it and move on. that is easyer said then done. people have allways used lables on me they seam to stay with me . i could continue by going on about my past .the only things i would like to add is as a rule lables are incorect they are trying to put around person in a sqaure hole. thanks all for letting me go on this is good therapy for me .you people are greatest bunch this old dog has had the pleasure to meet.keep it coming ilove all your in sight.
REPORT ABUSELarynxa when I read your six points from your old assesment it feels like you have spent some time in my head , that is how i think plus that people dont like me or are angry with me. so they were to test for anxiety. they showed me not one picture they gave me a list of multiuble choice question after asking me to spell some words they gave me . They wanted me to remember a long list of things that they read to me 3 times and one list once i dont know how this tells then whats going on in my head. I got more from your six points above then from that entire afternoon. they allso ask me to define some words. so thanks again it seams like i have to read things a few times to get all. even on conreta i still seam rushed and my brain needs to slow down . i think thats why my spealing is always been so poor. atleast now slowed down long enough to learn that .or shoud i say while looking for letters on this key board ha ha
REPORT ABUSEnow I see what kind of fog you are talking about. . have you tryed any of the many meds out? what does your doctor say? can one of the meds clear this fog? let us know, hope you find something that works. sorry I can’t help.
REPORT ABUSEThank you for the kind words all , my psychiatrist already gives me72mg of concerta and my family doc gives me T3’s up two 100 every 15days. plus my other meds . so if he is not smart enough to know that if it was about the drugs I would talk with the docs that are already giving me all meds , I can aford . I spend $700 per month on drugs . If he thinks I want more cost in my life he is dead wrong . I gave him a list of all my meds, so he knew I was getting all the meds I need. so I think he should have seen that.
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